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The Lie of “Balance”: What Moms Actually Need to Feel Human Again balance myth emotional labor mental load mom burnout motherhood the badass momifesto Dec 14, 2025

There’s a particular word that makes most moms roll their eyes so hard they see the back of their skull:

Balance.

As in…

“Just find more balance.”
“Maybe you need better balance between work and home.”
“You’re overwhelmed? Try balancing your schedule.”

Balance implies you’re doing something wron...

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Why “I’ll Do It Myself” Is Burning You Out — and the New Rule for Getting Help Without Begging asking for help badass momifesto mental load mom burnout motherhood parenting support women’s empowerment Dec 07, 2025

There’s a moment every mother knows too damn well.

You look around the room, waiting for someone — anyone — to step up.

They don’t.

And then you say the six words that have become your personal death sentence: “Never mind. I’ll just do it.”

At this point, it’s basically muscle memory.

Someone m...

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